November 2019

It seems like hiring a coach is becoming the hottest new accessory for high-achieving individuals—whether it be for business, career, or health. The coaching industry is estimated to be worth $2 billion annually and continues to grow, according to the International Coach Federation (ICF).   It’s an...

I’ve never wanted kids. I’m 30 years old, living in Bali as an entrepreneur and have absolutely no desire to give birth to new life.  I don’t have any remorse about my choice, but I do have some uncomfortable stories going on about what’s going to...

A lack of “worthiness” first showed up for me in relationships. I knew I was a powerhouse at work, I always earned enough money, and I never had much doubt about my attractiveness or body, but show me a couple who was blissfully happy or a...

Burning out and dropping out have become a trend, a sexy one at that. Burnout, quit your corporate job, travel, move to Asia. I’ve done all that (many times), so my message on the other side is clear: this is not the way forward. This is not...

I knew I had come into my relational peak state the day I could stop my partner in the middle of foreplay and say, “Hey, I feel like I’m performing right now. What I really want is for you to hold me in stillness,” and be...

Two years ago, I was sitting behind my laptop working for Uber as a program manager. Today I make what I made in a month of corporate 9-to-5 hustle by offering things I love to share on the internet. As one of the many coaches in...

Someone asked me this week: How long did it take you to have a $20K month — and I want to provide some honest reflections and strategy that helped me. I have been coaching since 2011 and I ran my “business” as a hobby without any...